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Watch for the "Red Flags."
Warning signs associated with problem gambling
By the time gamblers are into the losing phase of compulsive gambling, warning signs are more pronounced. Family members and friends should attend to any of these warning signs; they are the "red flags" of a serious gambling addiction:
Preoccupation with Gambling
Spends excessive time or money gambling
Misses work and/or ignores family obligations
Spends free time daydreaming about and planning to gamble
Seems to be losing touch with friends
Inability to Meet Monthly Living Expenses
Repeatedly betting and losing more than the limit he/she set for self
Falling behind on rent/mortgage payments
Going without food
Foregoing prescription medications
Always short of money
Lying About Gambling Losses or Whereabouts
Unexplained debts or disappearances
Secretive about family finances
Denial of any problems
May talk about wins, but keeps losses to self
Using Up Financial Reserves
Dipping into pension/retirement funds
Cashing in life insurance policies
Taking out large bank loans or second mortgages
Repeated cash advances on multiple credit cards
Asking secretly to borrow money
Crossing the line to criminal behavior; embezzlement
Severe Mood Swings
"High" with wins; Devastated by losses
Feeling of emptiness or loss when NOT gambling
Restless and anxious all the time
Hopeless, depressed, suicidal
Know When to Fold
If you or someone you know is exhibiting one or more of these "red flag" behaviors, it's time to look for help. Names of referral services are usually listed in the yellow pages of a phone book under Gambling Addiction/Treatment.
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